Poll results show marital infidelity the most unforgivable offense by a spouse

More than 50 percent of respondents to a poll conduced by leading free marriage advice website www.ShouldIDivorceHim.com said marital infidelity is worse than substance abuse, inattentiveness and lying.

When it comes to marriage, the most unforgivable offense that a significant other can commit is marital infidelity. According to a poll conducted by www.ShouldIDivorceHim.com, an online community offering free marriage advice and catering to the trials and tribulations of marriage, family and divorce, an estimated 59 percent of respondents said cheating is the most serious impropriety above lying, substance abuse and inattentiveness.

Following marital infidelity, 16% of respondents selected inattentiveness, 16% chose lying and the remaining 7% chose substance abuse as the most serious crimes causing anger in marriage.

ShouldIDivorceHim.com has become a sounding board offering free marriage advice for many unhappily married women searching for an answer to the big question: "Should I Divorce Him?" While many women rely on family and friends for support, some women are not comfortable spilling the most intimate details of their marriage to people they know. With www.ShouldIDivorceHim.com, women have a safe place to discuss topics such as anger in marriage and marital infidelity anonymously and receive encouragement from women who've been there and done it.


www.ShouldIDivorceHim.com is an online destination and community catering to the trials and tribulations of marriage, family and divorce. The site provides free marriage advice from peers and experts as well as articles tackling the issues of anger in marriage, marital infidelity and emotional issues. A subsidiary of KMJ Interactive, the founding group is comprised of a team of seasoned internet and media professionals from a range of world-class companies including eDiets.com, Cox Media, American Media, CNN International, USA Networks, Autoweb.com, IBM and Sensormatic.

The site features daily commentary from a host of seasoned writers, message boards, expert articles, relationship resources and more.

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10 signs your relationship is over

You vowed til death do you part. However, judging by your partner’s recent actions, something is about to expire and more than likely it’s your marriage, not you. More than half of all marriages end in divorce, and many men and women find themselves blindsided by the realization that their blessed union has quickly come to an end.

That begs the question. Does a marriage fall apart overnight or does it deteriorate over time? If you suspect you and your partner are on shaky ground, it’s time to put your marriage under the microscope and make sure you’re not overlooking some serious red flags. Here are 10 warning signs that may be screaming the end is near.

Check out the 10 signs it's probably over....

Sex after divorce

After spending years or even decades sleeping with one person, the notion of adding another notch to your belt can be tough to accept. Find out how all you need to know to get back in the saddle.

After months of divorce, this woman is ready to get back on the horse. Yet she's not sure how to approach the touchy subject of sex with the new man in her life. Our resident expert lends some much-needed guidance. Here’s how to get started.

Get e-venge online

Your husband cheated on you. Your husband was a crappy father. Your husband didn't do anything around the house. Your husband spent all your money. You decided to call it quits but you're still mad. What's a girl to do? Get revenge online. E-venge.

Sites like http://www.dontdatehimgirl.com/ and i-caught on www.ABCnews.com let women to share with the world what a jerk their man is/was. Pros - it warms other women out there, it makes you feel better. Cons - it can ruin the man's reputation and cause pain not only to your dirtbag ex, but to you, too.

Another opiton is the http://www.shouldidivorcehim.com/ Bitchin' Boards. Here, women can share their gripes about their husbands, boyfriends and ex's in a anonymous fashion while getting advice from women in similar situations. So go ahead. Get e-venge. Tell the world what a jerk he is. The world may not know his name, but they'll know all his dirty laundry. And you'll know you're not alone.

Hate Your Husband?

Join the club. If you're in a miserable marriage -- or a miserable divorce -- we'd love to hear your story. We're looking for writers. Email us at info@shouldidivorcehim.com.

Turn your relationship woes into something useful

www.ShouldIDivorceHim.com awards $25 a week for "Stupid Man Tricks"

Fort Lauderdale, FL - July 23, 2007 -- Face it, men do stupid things. From the police officer who broke into his own house because he forgot the spare key was under the doormat to the husband who couldn't figure out why the baby's diaper was leaking (he put it on backwards) to the boyfriend whose idea of a romantic valentine's gift was a brand new cutting board, the list stupid man tricks goes on and on.If spouses (or exs), or boyfriends, or any male for that matter, does the stupidest things known to man -- and woman -- the new online divorce and relationship destination www.ShouldIDivorceHim.com wants to hear about it.

Anyone can share stories and compete with others for the weekly Stupid Man Tricks Award. Every week the www.ShouldIDivorceHim.com committee will vote and award some lucky gal with a $25 gift certificate to help ease the pain. Simply submit your story to stupidmantricks @ shouldidivorcehim.com, along with your name, contact number and a valid email address, and you'll be entered to win.

"We started the Stupid Man Tricks Award as a way to find some humor in the stupid things our significant others do that drive us crazy," said www.ShouldIDivorceHim.com CEO Kim Droze. "If you can laugh at them - and get a reward for putting up with them - it makes things just a little bit easier."

www.ShouldIDivorceHim.com is a content-based website featuring a team of veteran writers who dish the dirt on the good, the bad and the ugly of relationships. With blogs such as The Ex Files, The World According To Kiki and J-Fed and Do I Need To Slap You?, there's a wealth of real-life writings that tell it like it is. Told from the first-person point of views of women from all walks of life, www.ShouldIDivorceHim.com finally offers an outlet.The brutally funny site features a scathing range of content including:

The Hag Rags -- First person accounts from women living the dream -- or the nightmare. Writers chronicle the trials and tribulations of marriage, divorce and everything in between.

Free Counsel -- The costs of therapy can add up. Why not get some complimentary advice from people who've been there, done that? Article sections include He Said What, Celebrity Trainwrecks, You Deserve This and more.

Is This Normal? -- Our relationship expert Michele Hickford answers the ultimate couples riddles, ranging from why he's so lazy to why he's still answering to his ex. With a no-nonsense approach, she tells it like it is, even if it means cutting your losses.

Hall of Shame -- Women can give him his 15 minutes of shame. Users are encouraged to submit the photo evidence of those downright dirty deeds. Sloppy -- Sleazy --Selfish --Send in his sins!
Bitchin' Boards -- Welcome to complaint central, an interactive community where the nags come to congregate.

About ShouldIDivorceHim.com
www.ShouldIDivorceHim.Com is the internet's first destination and online community catering to the trials and tribulations of marriage, family and divorce with support for any woman, advice and tips for a successful marriage. A subsidiary of KMJ Interactive, the founding group is comprised of a team of seasoned internet and media professionals from a range of world-class companies including eDiets.com, Cox Media, American Media, CNN International, USA Networks, Autoweb.com, IBM and Sensormatic.
The site features daily commentary from a host of seasoned writers, message boards, expert articles, relationship resources and more. Visit http://www.shouldidivorcehim.com for more information.

Should I Divorce Him? New Website Explores Why Couples Divorce and Helps Women Decide

Check out the press release for the new site:


Should I Divorce Him? New Website Explores Why Couples Divorce and Helps Women Decide

Online destination offers divorce advice for any woman

Fort Lauderdale, Florida (July 19, 2007) -- From beauty salons to bingo halls, it isn’t uncommon to hear women complaining about their significant others, be it a boyfriend, husband or ex. With one in two marriages ending in divorce, there’s obviously a huge, ready-made audience for a website where women can air their complaints and get divorce advice geared toward the average woman. Although many sites provide visitors with a forum to interact, there are none that solely function as an avenue where women can let it all hang out… until now.

ShouldIDivorceHim.com is a content-based website featuring a team of veteran writers who dish the dirt on the good, the bad and the ugly of relationships. With blogs such as Mrs. Bickersons’s Bitchings, The Ex Files and Do I Need To Slap You?, there’s a wealth of real-life writings that tell it like it is - from why couples divorce to successful marriage tips. Told from the first-person point of views of women from all walks of life, ShouldIDivorceHim.com finally offers an outlet.

“Today, divorce is the new black,” says Kim Droze, CEO of KMJ Interactive, the parent company of ShouldIDivorceHim.com. “It seems like nearly everyone is doing it or thinking about it. Marriage, or the downfall of it, is a life-changing event and we wanted to create a place where women could not only share their experiences, but also commiserate with others in the same boat.’

The brutally funny site features a scathing range of content including:

The Hag Rags -- First person accounts from women living the dream… or the nightmare. Writers chronicle the trials and tribulations of marriage, divorce and everything in between from divorce advice for every woman, successful marrige tips and why couples divorce. Featured blogs include The World According to Kiki & J-Fed, Do I Need To Slap You?, The Ex Files, The Rantings of A Soccer Mom, Mrs. B.’s Bemusements, Justice & Truth Reigns and even something from “the other side” in Mystery Man’s Musings.

Free Counsel -- The costs of therapy can add up. Why not get some complimentary divorce advice for the average woman from people who’ve been there, done that? Article sections include He Said What, Celebrity Trainwrecks, You Deserve This and more.

Is This Normal? -- Our relationship expert Michele Hickford answers the ultimate couples riddles, ranging from why he’s so lazy to why he’s still answering to his ex. With a no-nonsense approach, she offers successful marriage tips and tells it like it is, even if it means cutting your losses.

Hall of Shame -- Women can give him his 15 minutes of shame. Users are encouraged to submit the photo evidence of those downright dirty deeds. Sloppy… Sleazy… Selfish… Send in his sins!

Bitchin’ Boards -- Welcome to complaint central, an interactive community where the nags come to congregate and get divorce advice for any woman, successful marriage tips and try to answer the question why couples divorce. Eagerly awaited, the ShouldIDivorceHim forums will launch within the month.

Although there are plenty of relationship websites, few take the unconventional approach of Should I Divorce Him, which even holds a weekly contest where women can submit their hubby or ex-hubby horror stories and win a $25 award. Divorce is a serious subject, but that doesn’t mean you can’t laugh about it (between tears).

“There’s nothing fun about relationship problems. You want to scream. You want to cry. We’ve given women a place where they can get it all off their chest. For many women, this is free therapy,” Droze adds.

About Should I Divorce Him?
ShouldIDivorceHim.Com is the internet’s first destination and online community catering to the trials and tribulations of marriage, family and divorce with support for any woman, advice and tips for a successful marriage. A subsidiary of KMJ Interactive, the founding group is comprised of a team of seasoned internet and media professionals from a range of world-class companies including eDiets.com, Cox Media, American Media, CNN International, USA Networks, Autoweb.com, IBM and Sensormatic.

The site features daily commentary from a host of seasoned writers, message boards, expert articles, relationship resources and more.

Contact:
Kim Droze, CEO KMJ Interactive
info@shouldidivorcehim.com
Ph: 954-298-9377
OR
Maria Burnham Nelson, President KMJ Interactive
561-628-1106

News Flash: We're Moving

That's right. Over the last six months I've had such a great time venting about J-Fed that I decided to invite some other women to join the party. Come check out www.shouldidivorcehim.com, a place where misery loves company. And thanks for sticking by me through thick and thin.

You're already one step ahead of someone else I know.

I Did Not Have Sexual Relations With That Woman!

In honor of President's Day, I leave you with a great quote from a not-so-great husband.

"I did not have sexual relations with that woman!"

Unhappily Ever After,

Kiki

Hall of Shame: Dishpan Hands

I'm feeling a wee bit nostalgic this morning. J-Fed has been gone 96 hours, 32 minutes. I haven't had to throw away any empty Frap bottles, pick up any wet towels off the furniture or fish any soda cans out of the dish pan. I did, however, have to kill a palmetto bug, and that in itself was almost enough for me to plead with J-Fed to return home. But nah, I'd rather contend with the little bug than the big bug. Besides, that's what Truly Nolen is for.

Anyways, with a new month looming around the corner see the picture above for a look back at one of our favorite J-Fed moments of January 2007.

With J-Fed temporarily out of the picture, no pun intended, we want your pictures for our hall of shame. Email your truly tasteless photos to kim@shouldidivorcehim.com, along with a brief commentary about your biggest "man" peeve. We'll give you plenty of props while protecting the identity of the innocent (That's you)!!!!

Hall of Shame: Seeing Is Believing

There are those moments that will stick with you forever. Your first kiss. Your wedding day. The birth of your first child. And of course, the first time you walked into the bathroom and saw something this insane. You don't know whether to laugh, cry or scream.

You would think this would be one small step for man. That's right. Just slip the little piece of cardboard right off the holder and into the garbage can. There's no special clip. You don't have to tinker with any tough latches. Nope, it's just a simple flick of the wrist. But nooooooooooo... It would be so much easier to just place a brand new roll right on top of the old empty one. Perhaps keep it there for posterior. Or maybe it has sentimental value... For the love of God, there has to be some reason, he's decided to leave it there.

Any ideas?